This particular "vent" post has been deleted to avoid being interpreted as a personal attack upon people who shouldn't feel like that.
Bottom line - this post was about how to be better about sincerely communicating with people we love and care about. Everybody can improve in this area, especially myself. So if you were one of the few who had a chance to read this original post, please excuse my "poor me" attitude.
I was in a particular pissy mood this morning and took it out inappropriately in this post and wouldn't want certain parties to take it personal and get their feelings hurt. Hopefully I can improve my own actions in this area too.